> >> Basically, I'm on a hill and he's on a hill, but we can't see each
Not sure where you are but UK law states the top of the antenna must not be
higher than 5meters above rooftop before you need planning permission, so if
you stick a webcam on the end of a pole will it clear the trees?
Get your mate to put a divers torch or some bright light on the end of a
pole at the other end.
If you have some 100mW walkie-talkies (5km range 455mhz I think), see if you
get a clear signal if you cannot then I would say no.
You could setup a repeater with a neighbour midway and offer them cheap
internet.
I'm in the same boat as you, I have a single poplar tree in direct line of
site on a 3mile link. May be able to go one side or the other but because
there is a row of them I may hit the next one, and what happens when the
wind blows them about.....

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Cheers
Rob