Ok, I have found a very nice turn-key solution. It is a Linux
Routing/Firewalling/Gateway security distribution, supporting the
installation of a DMZ and wireless hotspots.
For anybody who is interested in somethin like that:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Endian_Firewall
Now what remains is a solution for the remaining services as SMB, FTP, HTTP.
I might set up a openSuSE or Kubuntu for that and administer the services
via Webmin. Alternatively I have found this:
http://www.eisfair.org/
Many greetings
tomakos